From engagement to the aisle: Begin planning ahead

Planning your wedding is an exciting yet very overwhelming process, as from saying “Yes” to saying “I do” you’re not going to sit, peacefully sip your coffee, and watch Netflix movies. You need to develop a clear plan for the whole thing to see what you need to do and WHEN is the right time. Take a deep breath and set things in motion early, as the weight of the countless decisions you must make is far from small. Remember you deserve nothing less but the best, so setting your priorities ahead might balance your wedding planning a lot. From choosing a venue that matches your aesthetic to finding the perfect dress, we know every step requires a lot of attention, so we crafted this article to guide you through the process for achieving your goals(and to do so with style).

 

Talk with your fiancé

Assuming you finished the “Would you still love me if I turned into a worm?” questions, you can share with your fiancé your wedding dreams, hopes, and expectations  and encourage them to do the same thing. The wedding should reflect both of your personalities, so there is no such thing as too many questions if you want to make that happen. Decide what you want to remember from your wedding day, and if there are any traditions you don’t want to follow, discuss them  from the beginning with your partner. Indeed, your family may be a little upset if you deviate from the customary wedding process, but since it’s one of the most significant days of your life, prioritizing your vision cannot be interpreted as selfishness.

Moreover, the place, décor, theme, and invitations are all shallow aspects compared to your love, so don’t let disagreements escalate into significant disputes between you and your fiancé. As two mature individuals, you can tactfully handle the process and enjoy every step.

 

Find a wedding venue

It can be a ballroom from your hometown or a country club in Tuscany, whatever your budget allows.

The first thing you should consider before making a decision about the venue is its practicality. Ask questions about the maximum capacity of the place, think about your wedding guests, and see if they can all fit in there. Keep in mind that some venues come with an unbreakable set of restrictions regarding high noise, outdoor catering, fireworks, and pets.

Before embarking on actual venue tours, you should decide on your wedding style, as it can vary from rustic charm to timeless elegance, bohemian dream, modern chic, and romantic garden. Afterward, you need to visualize the decorations you want to use and ensure they would blend smoothly with the space. Every venue has a specific atmosphere, so you must see if it aligns with the mood you want to create. Also, allow yourself to be flexible during your journey, as it is entirely normal to look beyond your first expectations.

 

Build a wedding team

Now, if you have finished visualizing your dream wedding, it is crucial to ensemble the perfect team, as they are in charge of making your wish come true:

If the plates remain full after the food is served, don’t fool yourself into thinking your guests have no appetite, as the explanation is quite simple: The food was terrible. If you want to avoid such an unpleasant experience, you should carefully choose the catering firm. You and your guests deserve to savor a delightful dining experience, so don’t decide without scheduling at least three tasting tests.

As for the pictures, it’s not like you’re having a night out and you can take photos with your phone because all you want is to post your outfit on Instagram. You must find a skilled photographer because you’ll have your wedding photos for a lifetime. Check their previous work and see if you like their images and editing style. Keep in mind that they must be capable of capturing moments, not just taking basic pictures where everyone stands in a straight line.

The florist also matters because a stunning flower bouquet can easily enhance the charm of your wedding attire.

Some people are willing to spend a fortune for their wedding day, but you can make it happen without breaking the bank. The secret is to search for people who are passionate about their job, as sometimes hard work may exceed the 5-star Google Reviews.

 

Pick the most exquisite dress

The wedding dress may be the first thing that crosses your mind after saying “YES”; it is entirely normal, as you probably have daydreamed about it since you were a little girl.  Start by researching styles and designers that caught your attention over time because that should give you enough perspective to know the direction you want to follow. Movies, magazines, blogs, and social media pages are good sources of inspiration as well, and it’s not unrealistic at all if Carrie Bradshaw’s wedding dress is what you want to wear on your big day. Indeed, if you are not extremely rich, you cannot wear exactly the same dress, as it was a Vivienne Westwood ball gown, which is estimated at 23.780 dollars, but you can show the picture to your seamstress and create something similar.

You can be a traditional, boho, romantic, modern, minimalist, glamorous, or non-traditional bride, as the most important thing about a dress is the woman who is wearing it. However, if you are looking for a little insight regarding 2025 wedding dress trends, look online for these: anti-veil, corsetry, garden party, vintage vibes, asymmetry, and sheer elegance.

 

Choose fabulous bridesmaid dresses

Choosing the perfect dresses for your bridesmaids is another important decision you have to make, as there are too many options, and each one of them is extremely beautiful. We know you are looking for something photo-worthy, but don’t forget to ask your bridesmaids if they like your choice, as nowadays it’s very easy to blend comfort with style. The most popular bridesmaids’ dress trends announced for 2025 are floral, mismatched, neutral, black, mocha, and pastel.

If you’re still undecided, we prepared a list of iconic movie bridesmaid dresses that you can be inspired by:

Friends: Phoebe and Rachel’s dresses from Monica and Chandler’s wedding.

Gossip Girl: Serena, Penelope, Jessica, and Nelly’s dresses from Blair’s wedding.

Sex and the City: Miranda, Charlotte, and Samnatha’s dresses from Carrie’s wedding.

Meet up with your girlfriends, show them your ideas, and have fun!

 

Final Thoughts

After spending an eternity setting everything up, it’s time to walk down the aisle with confidence. Make sure your fiancé doesn’t forget your wedding rings at home and good luck!